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or won't date? Does their vehicle matter? Their home? Whether they are in debt or manage their finances well?
Money is not a problem. As long as there's enough of it.
That thing you did. Do it again.
None of those. I didn't care about the money, or lack there of in our case when we first got together. For me, it was always sense of humor, especially if they could handle mine.
"Imagine a world where we are all enlightened by objective truths rather than offended by them"
Important. They must be a working person and not a bum and freeload offf people. He doesn't have to be rich or drive a fancy car. And yes I think it shows responsibility if they manage their finances well. Who wants to be with someone who doesn't pay their bills and accumulates debt and spends money on silly things they don't need all the time, that to me would be a an irresponsible materialistic person.
No issue whatsoever. I am not interested in a person's bank acct,assets, or yearly income. It is ALL ABOUT HOW THEY TREAT ME!
Lots more important things in a relationship than money!
Their possessions won't catch my attention nor will their job. A person earning 35 to 40 a year with their house and car paid off and money saved has more freedom than someone over 100K with a mortgage, car note, and enslaved to keeping up woth the Joneses. I personally wouldn't care if they're in debt due to the fact one can make bad decisions early but are making steps in the right direction towards eliminating and properly managing it.
That's my opinion.
"He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life." - Muhammad Ali
Not a factor. Common interests, genetic matches, common sense of humor or thought process is what attracts me. For some I've observed a rude awakening in men when they finally achieve their financial goals and presume great relationships a beautiful wife and family automatically comes and they go through a real awakening that those type of quality relationships actually take arguably more time to build than their wealth did and have the added burden of risking attracting women that would manipulate even kill them for their wealth acquired
Money is the # 1issue of the most disagreements in serious relationships.
I only expect a s/o to be able to manage what they have to work with. I don't care what they drive or where they live. I do care if they are reasonably organized and responsible for themselves (called adulting) so it doesn't become a problem for me.
won't affect me, but my student loan debt may play a factor in a ladies decision who knows?
Financial Responsibly is very important, in someone I keep around. I prefer to date a peer, however in a pinch looks will suffice for a night
“Better a true enemy than a false friend.”
I might as well spam my book haha: http://amzn.to/2hjCZsD
He was no loss. You deserve a lot more.
Thanks, Lasuz :)
I was hurt for about 2 minutes, I grieved the loss of a bug for longer than that.
Not very. Maybe it becomes important as you get older, but I'm only really interested in how a person makes me feel. No matter how well off a person is, that money could go away, and when it does you still have to like the person it leaves behind.
“The lesson is that you can still make mistakes and be forgiven.” – Robert Downey Jr.