It's all about wanting her cake and eating it too. The EU set their red lines from day one and May has tried to limbo dance under them. It's a bit like cancelling your subscription to a tennis club but still demanding use of the services.
Then there is the split in her own party between the so called hard Brexiteers who are demanding she just walks away, pays no "divorce bill" which is in reality just honouring the spending commitments made before the vote.
Now we are at last seeing our elected reps accept that Brexit will lose jobs and reduce our living standards and are asking for another vote
Then there is the Irish question which is so complicated let's just say the Irish have the power to bring down May's government.
Scotland has a choice to get out of this mess and recent polling puts independence at 57% so we are just waiting on the call to arms
We have met the enemy and he is us.