So for the past month or so my husband has talked to me with a tone as though he’s angry. Usually atleast 70% of the day he talks to me like this. It’s Whenever I ask for help with anything especially so. Anywho, I told him this behavior is making me angry, as I make dinner, and he just continues playing on his phone and says nothing. Once he’s off his phone, I ask him why he didn’t respond. And he says “well, what do you want me to do about it?!” I start crying and he says “I’m sorry but can we eat now.” I told him I just want him to show me he loves me, so he says he’ll make dessert. Now it’s after dinner and he’s acting all mopey saying he doesn’t want to make me dessert. So I act sad and say that actions speak louder than words, and he says I have it wrong, that, yes, he has been treating me badly but I act as if he has a choice. He has bi-polar. He’s saying because he has bi polar he HAS NO CHOICE but to treat me meanly. He only sees his own feelings and disregards mine because, after all, he’s the one with bi-polar. Somebody please give some advice about what to do or say. Thank you.