Either can be a blessing or a curse. Neither one is the end of the world, though some feel it might be.
A. If a marriage is bad once always has the option of moving their partner to the curb for recycling. Marriage is 4 parts:
3. Business Partners - yea a household is business
Marriages go south because most only see the Lover and ignore the other three (3) areas. So it is up to the individual to make it into a blessing or a curse.
B. Getting fired is not the lot it used to be in this age of corporate restructuring. The first task of anyone on day 1 of a new job is updating ones CV (Resume), It is a curse if one is not prepared for an involuntary separation. If one is prepared and looking to where the ball is going and not where it has been it may be a blessing