I've had her as a friend for over a year and we're somewhat very close at this point.
but 1 month ago she met a guy and they're in a relationship and since then I've started to feel jealous and it made me feel like shit because i thought I'm being selfish.
i recalibrated myself and i found out i have strong feelings for her but I've never realized it and i don't know what to do.
the first options i thought of were to
1) tell her about it because i can't take myself speaking to her while she doesn't know about this, knowing about the consequences and that it might break our friendship.
or 2) to just run away from her and everything related to her so i can forget about it maybe so only i get hurt.
I'm aware my choices are probably bad because i took them by my feelings right now, so i just need advice on what to do maybe.