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Okay hear me out, She's my classmate at Uni and we became really close friends and we always hangout together, One day she just left her boyfriend and told me she enjoys being with me ect ect, and she left her bf for me. I'm torn about this, cuz I like her but It kinda sucks to be her boyfriend and felt guilty about it, this makes me not want to be in a relationship with her... and just remain friends, cuz i don't want the same thing to happen to me.

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Trust your instincts. Go with them. It feels like it is doomed to failure.

But then again you may have some fun. If you aren't feeling guilty that is.

Blow it off or just blow it


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Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Not every relationship needs to be about forever.

Currently, she has chosen you.  Most women will have been someone's girlfriend at some point, so in this case you just happen to know about it.

So accept the facts as they are, be her friend, enjoy each other, hang out and hookup.

Maybe you get lucky, maybe you join the broken hearts club, but n this game you have to play or live alone forever.  Not a bad choice in my opinion.

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I don't think we have control over who we fall in love with.

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It may seem a little rushed since she is fresh out of another relationship but she is available. She went about it the right way breaking up to pursue someone else instead of cheating. You don't really know how long she was considering ending that relationship for before she pulled the plug. Love is always risky, there are no guarantees. So instead of feeling guilty about something you did nothing wrong, you ought to really weigh in on her character and take things slow if you are interested. 

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