You are now an Adult and you can make your own plans. Yes you have the right and quite possibly a deep need to have your own Holiday. Find a snuggle bunny for the Holidays
A very pleasant suggestion would be to plan your own event. Take your time off and use it on a vacation for yourself when you want to take it. Send both of your Parents a nice Holiday Card wishing them well. Include you are having a Holiday brunch etc and say if they want to stop by they are welcome. Make sure they have to decide between their Vacation or your place.
Become a Master not a Slave. It is necessary move we all take once we become adults. Some folks leave provisional Adulthood earlier than others. Is this the year you do it?
“Better a true enemy than a false friend.”