God grief you dont half complicate a completely uncomplicated issue.
None of your matches should even register as anything other than a virtual match. He shouldn't be mad about anything you do and you dont get to wonder what he is up to...until you ask him and actually meet.
As far as I'm concerned all you have done so far is speak like we are doing now, however, you dont need to know who I'm speaking to next.
Internet dating wasn't a thing in my day, I dont have an issue with it because we all lead such busy lives these days and meeting someone the traditional way seems more difficult. What I just don't get is how on earth a match can mean anything other than a like to get to know you. There is to much projection with it and we end up advising people who are heartbroken after not seeing someone!!!
Good luck on the interview though, I have a deep respect for nurses
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