I’m completely clueless on this guy’s behavior or what is even going on. Why would a guy seem friendly with you...like he wanted to be friends or more...then basically push you away? We live in the same neighborhood and went to the same gym. Quarantine happened and we hung out once. I thought we were friends. I mean we would always talk when we seen each other. Nothing happened between us.
But then he slowly started saying less and less to me when he seen me. Got to the point where he just started waving and then where he wouldn’t say anything at all. But yet, he still looked at me as he went by. He wouldn’t say anything...just looked. I got to where I didn’t say anything either because I’m just the type where if you don’t want to talk to me, then I’m not talking to you. But it hurts. It really does. He’s a cool guy. Well, about 3 days ago I was walking in the neighborhood and he came up behind me and actually spoke to me. This was the first time in weeks he’s spoke to me. He said hello and kept going. I walked a little further and he came back towards me. As he was going past, he said a little more. I started talking and he got the biggest smile on his face. He didn’t stop. We talked as we walked past one another. I was thinking everything was going to be ok then.
I seen him the next night and thought to myself, maybe I should say something to him first. I miss him. So I said hello as he was riding his bike by. He hesitated and just waved. He did not look at me and he kept going. I just don’t understand what happened or what is going on with him. He seemed happy when I spoke with him the other night. But I don’t get why he’s treating me like this.