oldest kid, my daughter the hellion has settled into a semi great 25 yr old who loves her mom now and still lives with me, pays me rent. literally spends all her time with me and at 11-16 she acted like she hated me lol. she has the upstairs i have the downstairs and my best friend is moving in tooo october 1.
My son on the other hand is a shit head he moved out at 19 and lives 2 miles away and i have seen him exactly 3 times in 3.5 years. he only calls if he looses a job. so 3 lost jobs in 3.5 yrs. yep. oh and he texted me to tell me he is now engaged to his boyfriend of 5 yrs.
he was laid off at the beginning of covid because he worked at the college bookstore... he refuses to go back to work ANYWHERE. he plans to stay on un employment payments till they run out. i could get him a job so could his sister paying him 2200 a month.....
preacher jim... oh my god... that was ......almost 4 yrs ago.
let me tell ya-- religious ppl are nuts.
1. caught him being mean/ neglectful to my then newly adopted doggie judyanne.
2. he was abusing his prescription meds.
3. when i broke up with him, i called his adult daughter to come get him and she told he he has a pattern of this.
4. he kept emailing me mean nasty stuff.. and i finally got fed up after about 6 mths of harassment and cc'ed his boss at the homeless shelter on the emails. the emails stopped lol.
oh and he also tried to say the doggo bit him... bite looked strange.... i found his cuticle scissors in the bath room with both tips bloody- the crazy man stabbed himself and tried to say it was the dog....... that was the day i got rid of him.