Hi, I'm lost, confused and feel heartbroken.
I thought it was love, idk why, but now I feel stupid.
I met this guy 2years ago, we connected then he went to work overseas and the relationship started growing over texts and zoom calls. We talked every day and finally he came back after 9months.
He lived with me now for a month, but slowly and surely he started commenting on all my imperfections, he doesn't take pictures with me, and find something wrong with everything I do, even the way I make my coffee. He makes me feel like I'm not good looking enough to be with him, he also kiss me with his eyes open which I find disturbing.
He is good looking and he knows it. He would look at every single woman walking past, even left me to go walk past another woman. I'm trying to see it as men will be men, but he does it deliberately because he knows I get upset when he does. Says things like joh! Look at that sexy thing.
The thing that gets me the most is that he said "everyone knows he thought his ex was the one" and now she's in a new relationship and he liked the status on her wall and on the boyfriend's wall. But never once liked any of my posts ever. He also said to me that he can't be certain of me after only one month together.
I don't want to feel like I've lost, and he would just say I'm crazy when I speak up about something : "I'm with you and I want to be with you" he tells me.
I just get so angry and upset about everything he does, I don't want to feel like this anymore :(
He does good things too, like open the car door and cooks. But he says I cook like shit,without even giving me a fair chance. Always standing there commenting and saying bad things.
What should I do? What would you do in this situation? I don't want to feel like I'm overreacting, I also don't want to feel like I've wasted so much time waiting for this one. We have good times too.