My wife never enjoyed holidays, looking at the stars, sunsets, or even fireworks. One day I asked her why? Well, it turned out it had nothing to do with me but had to with others in her life, how they made her feel. Eventually, she felt better about all these special things, including taking compliments because of me. I made her feel a way that the others didn't. Bottom line, if someone makes you feel negative about yourself, find someone who will not only want to make your feel good, but goes that extra step for you. A person, he or she, who wants to bring out the best in you is what it's all about. Someone who makes you feel great is worth it. All others can take a hike.