Once you expressed wanting a relationship which he wanted like a severe case of Monkey Pox!
You scared him off!
Get it? He thought you were easy peasey which is totally what wants from a woman, free sex!
No remembering birthdays, anniversaries or meet ups with each other’s families.
Just a friend with benefits!
You broke the unwritten rule of these encounters 1) Thou shall not ask for anything other than mutual sex. A relationship is strictly verboten!
Now you are scratched out of his little black book permanently!
No he isn’t interested in a relationship which implies exclusivity. He certainly wasn’t just having sex with you? Most likely he has been connecting with women then cutting them loose. You don’t suppose they asked for more of a commitment in the form of a relationship?
No, you were to busy enjoying his compliments, blushing emoji’s and sex to ask about his behaviors you’ve posted here. Why ask us about his concerning behavior of asking for a weeks getaway and then agree to go off with him.
He had more red flags than a Chinese parade, and yet you proceeded with all his bs! And you ask if he is desperate?
You need to do some introspection and decide what it is you want, a sex boy at the ready or a mature relationship complete with honesty about what you both want. It appears he thought you were cool with the mutual sex you both enjoyed.
You were the one who switched things up yet still seem oblivious as to why he is out? If you hadn’t mentioned the relationship option he would undoubtedly still be shagging you but not you only.
It appears he loves the conquest and men who look at women that way generally don’t respect them.