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My fwb has been on dates with a girl at his university last year and I think he has feelings for her which he doesn't show. My fwb has the habit of going on dates and having sex very fast with multiple girls and he wanted the same with her. However, she didnt have sex with him and didnt chase him. This made him very mad but he continued to talk to her in person (she always kept talking to him even though she would stop texting him). He was always bitter but wouldnt let go.

Recently she has been having issues with housing and has not been able to find a place to live in the city. So she told him she was considering going back to her home country.

When she told him, he initially thought she was going away for a week or so to meet family and was like oh ok. But when she told him that she was thinking of leaving for good, he kept looking at her and didn't say a word for a few seconds until he said keep lookin, search. He heard her issues and was saying to be positive, keep looking, how he will also look around etc.

She works and study at the university (he's a student too) and he asked if i can do my work remotely and i said no. He also said be positive and he ll also look around and keep looking. But he looked a bit disturbed.

So now its safe to say he will stop caring about her??

he now lose feelings for her?

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Looks like he is wanting to move you away from uni so you aren’t analyzing what he says and does with HER!

That doesn’t sound like he is “losing feelings” or attraction or sexual obsession does it?

Has he asked you yet if she can stay with you? Don’t be surprised if he gets desperate enough!

It doesn’t sound like he hates her, does it?

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He didnt come to uni today so he doesnt care?


Maybe he is looking aggressively for a place for her to stay?

He obviously cares or he wouldn’t look around for her someplace to stay. He would have just said ok and nothing more.

You are setting yourself up for disappointment by constantly thinking he doesn’t care when he obviously does.

Maybe he’ll go online for uni to keep you out of his business?

He’s a strange bird for sure!


When did he say hes looking around? She told him and he gave her tips. Its nit like helped her or asked her to move in with him?


He told her be positive, he also will look around and keep looking. At least that’s what you posted.

We’ll see.


So this doesnt mean anything? He just said it thats it. He didnt do anything


Truth is you don’t really know this guy. You just have sex with him. If you really knew him you wouldn’t be so insecure and need constant reassurance that he will lose feelings?

I think everything he says means something, he just doesn’t like being quizzed about it.

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