That’s how people with mental issues act!
They don’t act like other people do!
I’ve tried to explain his circular thinking.
Do you understand what circular thinking is?
He keeps going around in circles and is miserable.
You are right most people would choose to have fwbs or a gf. He chooses both. Yet, his mental issues (rules) are he can’t chase that is initiate texts, requests to meet up!
He is irritated because he wants her to initiate texts or suggestions to meet up. That’s the big source of his frustration with her!
She has said to someone she won’t chase him.
This, is a circular stalemate!
This gives him stress and your threats to expose him gives him even more stress! He thinks she won’t talk to him if she finds out what he’s really doing on the down low! That’s why he is irritated with you.
You don’t understand how he thinks because he’s in love with her but doesn’t want to give up his sex…… because he’s a sexual addict.
He may end up in a psychiatric floor in a hospital from all the stress. I know of a man who this happened to. He may attempt suicide to relieve his mental agony.