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How long does it take you to recoup after a serious relationship?

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asked Oct 22, 2016 in Relationships by Lasuz (1,076,470 points)

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I think it depends on if you are the one that fell out of love or if its the other. If you fell out of love, its faster, but if you are blind sided with them wanting out, it make take a year, sometimes more ( I have seen this with some of my guy friends. They get stuck on a female for years after the break up.) 

answered Oct 22, 2016 by mouse (13,170 points)
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You move on in most cases, however some memories always stick with you


“Better a true enemy than a false friend.”

answered Oct 22, 2016 by Archerchef (1,551,870 points)
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My last one took 18 months. I wanted to cleanse myself 


"He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life." - Muhammad Ali

answered Oct 22, 2016 by king313 (636,860 points)
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It varies on how involved and how much time I put in it


We Rise By Lifting Others!

answered Oct 22, 2016 by Gigi57 (1,852,540 points)
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I am usually hard hit when it ends. I am the one who didn't see it coming and who got taken advantage of.  If they were particularly brutal to me, then I have to drown myself in my work, in order to survive. Tears can come on in the middle of a drive to the store or some other inconvenient time.  It can take months as in the last time or years still hoping to hear from them, if they just disappeared..So done with all of that!  lol

answered Jan 11 by Cinders717 (2,700,050 points)
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10 maybe 15 minutes

answered Jan 11 by Boxer1 (249,150 points)
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Depends on the nature of the relationship and how much you loved them. I've been very much in love with an abusive guy and that took me a long time to get over.

But some people just fall out of love,and that's okay.


“The lesson is that you can still make mistakes and be forgiven.” – Robert Downey Jr.

answered Jan 11 by Sheogorath (231,330 points)
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it has been about 4 years or so, take what you will from that answer


Time is simply how we live our lives-Craig Sager

answered Jan 13 by curiousguy (581,000 points)
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It used to take me a few weeks before getting back up on the horse, so to speak, regardless of who broke it off.


Dictators ride to and fro upon tigers which they dare not dismount and the tigers are getting hungry

answered Jan 13 by lavender (1,777,710 points)
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